It's not a problem. I've got a life myself. Unfortunately, it's someone else's. I don't have enough people on my friends list to play private matches, so I have to make do with playing hormonal teenagers who take every kill as a personal insult. I'd cry if I wasn't so busy laughing. I can count the number of women I've met on Xbox Live on one hand. I don't think it's me that's driving them away.