Since it's Valentine's day I thought this might be an interesting debate topic. How important do you feel it is to celebrate things like birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine's day etc in a relationship? Do you get all bent out of shape if your loved ones forget or feel guilty if you do? Maybe you feel like these things are unnecessary or are only an excuse for retailers to make extra money? On the other hand, maybe these observances might mean a lot to you? I think the different perspectives of the sexes and people from all over the world might be interesting here.