An Apology

Discussion in 'Greetings!' started by HumanInfiltrator, Oct 13, 2007.

  1. HumanInfiltrator

    HumanInfiltrator The Book club lady

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    Hi guys.

    I know that you probably don't want to hear it but here is an explanation for where I went and a sincere apology for disappearing like I did.

    It has been one hell of a year. My boyfriend of six and half years broke up with me and I had to move out of our flat. Financially I was almost broken having been the sole breadwinner in the household on a very small income. There were all kinds of issues at work with various accusations being slung my way. etc. etc.

    I am so sorry for leaving you all and the book club in a lurch, and I apologize.

    To Kakashi, I am especially indebted to you, thank you and I'm sorry.

    If anybody needs to reach me I finally have a new e-mail: HumanInfiltrator@yahoo.com.

    Thank you for all that you have meant to me.

    HI
     
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  2. Blackness

    Blackness Well-Known Member

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    Welcome back :D :D
     
  3. Running Wolf

    Running Wolf Join the Madness

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    Yeah, I mean I didn't get to know you, but welcome back!
    Hope everything is better again :D
     
  4. Nienor

    Nienor Administrator Staff Member

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    Sorry about all your problems over the past few months. :(

    Glad to see you back. Hopefully the book club won't be a ghost town anymore.
     
  5. Foinikas

    Foinikas Playing backgammon!

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    Why did your boyfriend breake-up with you? :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

    (I'm joking you don't have to reply)
     
  6. Bones

    Bones New Member

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    Well, I will accept your apology though I did have to think about it for awhile before deciding to accept it. It was like one minute your here, and then POOF! you're just gone and it was hard for awhile accepting it for me. Well, I suppose a "welcome back" is in order here...I'm relieved that you are O.K.

    Best regards,
    Bones
     
  7. LyannaWolfBlood

    LyannaWolfBlood Ella Dictadora

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    Sorry to here about that, HI, but it's great to have you back :). No need for an apology though, you had more than enough reason not to be here.
     
  8. Kenshin

    Kenshin Drifter

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    WOOO! you're back!!
    (i dont think you were around for my name change, im theworldsDM) :)
     
  9. Kakashi

    Kakashi The Fighters Guide House Member

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    HI's Back!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    yippee!
     
  10. Kakashi

    Kakashi The Fighters Guide House Member

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    and if you're wondering, yes i did img tag all of those. and yes img tags are turned off in the welcome section...
     
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  11. Cascador

    Cascador Who's Anakin?

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    hey, nice to have you back!:)
     
  12. Adina

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    Sorry to hear about how things have been going for you.

    Since you're back, it's safe to assume things are getting back on track, right? Congratulations if that's the case.

    On a side note, you really shouldn't feel the need to apologise as profusely as you have. I'm sure everyone you spoke with when you were last online are just glad to see you back.
     
  13. HumanInfiltrator

    HumanInfiltrator The Book club lady

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    Oh goodness. Thank you everybody. You have no idea how much I needed and appreciate the welcome back you have given me.

    Things are kinda back on track. Emotionally I'm still bruised but further I'm better than I have been for years. Getting my things in order to move to Japan next year. Yes, I know running away doesn't help but a change of environment sure will. I hope.

    I have internet at home now so you will all be sick of me soon. lol

    Foinikas, good to see you haven't changed. He decided that he didn't love me anymore. So what could I say to that? Uhm, I think you are wrong... No matter. I just try not to take it to personally.
     
  14. Kenshin

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    *does the HI is back dance*
     
  15. Foinikas

    Foinikas Playing backgammon!

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    He decided he doesn't love you anymore?Where do you find those people...:/
     
  16. Rhotdog

    Rhotdog New Member

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    Glad you are back. I have never met you but i hope we can be friends. (If my Avatar creeps you out just ignore it =) )
     
  17. Kakashi

    Kakashi The Fighters Guide House Member

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    don't worry, HI has been exposed to alot creepier things than that. like me.
     
  18. Adina

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    Usually I would agree that running away doesn't help, but since you're running to Japan, I say go for it! I'm extremely envious and wish you the best of luck!
     
  19. Kakashi

    Kakashi The Fighters Guide House Member

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    yeah, living in japan would be awesome. do you know japanese? i'm just learning it in school this year, and i hope to eventually visit it one day.
     
  20. bloodfiredeath

    bloodfiredeath Die by the Sword

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    Welcome back HI, great to see you again! Sorry to hear about your drama's in real life, hope it all sorts itself out for the best. Just is damn fine to see you back!